By virtue of our nature, women are nurturers, a trait that through the generations has been confused for weakness while it actually is one of our greatest traits ever. With our nurturing nature, care, vulnerability, loyalty and forgiveness follow. Our world is so fast paced that these little traits are not only unacknowledged but are also confused for modern day descriptions of women, like “mothering”, “desperate” and “clingy” just to name a few. If not that, then they are abused, taken for granted. The worst thing any man can do is to take the love of the woman in his life for granted, because when she turns her back at you, and tells you that she’s had enough, best believe it will take a miracle and a half to get you in her good graces again, and by good graces I mean a place where she can love you without any fear or doubt, or before she’s driven crazy.
A real woman will love her man through anything, no joke, anything; because the worst thing to her is being without the man she loves, seeing him loose the sparkle in his eyes. She is willing to hold your hand when your finances aren’t in check, help you build an empire from scratch. He may not know it, but when he lets her know of a problem, she is busy thinking of a solution, and if she can’t come up with anything, she goes on her knees for you.
A real woman stands by her man’s side even when his family drives him crazy; she won’t encourage tearing his family apart, but will be there to facilitate unity and peace, in the most undetectable way possible. She is the voice of reason in her man’s ear. ‘It is important to mind the voice one listens to’ and she knows this principle very well and respects it.
Blessed is the man a real woman finds to love, and I use “real” because I’m referring to women who understand that small sacrifices are necessary for the bigger picture in a relationship, and that their strength lies in their caring nature, but that she can never be reduced to anyone’s door mat. That man will never have to worry about where his woman’s priorities lie, she’s got your back, hell and back, so treat her right, and let her know that she’s appreciated, her love sends you good mojo.
Article By Moshibudi Thatego Madia
