Man need to get this message once and for all #stoprapeculture
Man need to get this message once and for all. They are not entitled to anyone whether married or not, I don’t care how much you have spent on her for that night, if she hasn’t said yes stop it, zip it up and be a hu-Man being. I don’t care how much she was sexting you the whole day preparing you for the night if she doen’t say she wants to do it, then stop right there. No means NO and silence means NO, simply because she is quite doesn’t mean she is saying yes, if she was so excited about doing it why would she forget to say yes.
“Because what men fear most about going to prison is what women fear most about walking down the sidewalk”
Rape culture goes deeper, also questions the way we were raised, it is not the fault of few parents or few absent or abusive fathers? It questions what we find entertaining and cool, seeing a women in a bikini on TV is alright but nobody ever questions why some guy should appear on the screen extending his hand to tap her butt. Nobody question why the camera zooms on her back side that long. I am not here to make excuse for man but to simply tell them, stop doing what you are doing it is wrong.
The statistics on this issue is far from being accurate, it is just a highlight of how worse things are, but in reality the situation is far worse than that. Women have to face the challenges life throws their way while forcing a smile because that excuse of a man just finds it ok to comment on her butt size. Listen brother I am not against you preferring that kind of body, shape or size but can you keep it to yourself. She is got a mirror and every time she brushes her teeth, try a new outfit or even pass by the shop windows she can see for herself.
Men think all their compliments are complimentary or add value, has it ever occurred to you that maybe, just maybe your compliment was unnecessary and offended her? Has it ever occurred to you that she is very sensitive about the same portion you find enticing? She wishes she could hide it and here you are smiling and thinking it is right you are a man you get to validate what is sexy about her… What would you say if one day you come across a group of women and they looked at you, with their eyes fixed below your belt, start laughing so loud and share remarks about how small that part loo?. It is offensive and your remarks are equally wrong.
The chain of rape culture start with starring, passing those unpleasant remarks, touching her without her consent and eventually forcing penetration. If her mini-skirt is too short for your eyes remember your head can rotate to whatever direction you want to look at. It is 2016 and rape cultures doesnt belong in this decade.
Article by Dimo wa Moraswi Sekele
