My Dude.
There is a lot of nonsense about
the image of women and what
“perfect” is.
You’ve been fed shit and maybe
you should understand a few
truths if you value quality in people.
A black woman is perfect as is.
How you find her.
Not your idea of what she is or
how she “should” be. She is not
a fetish you’ve built up from all
the smut you see on television,
read in magazines or the ones
you secretly view with shame
and embarrassment from the
porn collection you jerk off to.
A black woman’s body is none
of your concern until she makes
it your concern. She is not put
on this earth to be gawked at by
you just because your favorite
rapper views women in that
way.
Don’t be pusillanimous.
That weak way of thinking, that perspective is stupid and frankly
utter fuckboyery. I believe in
you, please don’t disappoint me.
Instead of whistling when you
see a good woman, hold that
shit back and calm your urges
to be crass and idiotic.
Stop your friend from talking
shit about black women.
Dissociate from the cool fuck
shits whose only concern is
racking up conquests and
fucking then dumping women.
Do better. Call your niggers out on
their bullshit instead of perpetuating
the same old garbage mentality
we came up on.
That having more than one dime
makes you it. Gets you made.
That calling women names for peer approval makes you hard and
a leader. A leader to what?
A leader to where?
Your perception of a perfect
woman should be the happiness
you’re going to give that one lady,
that one woman by the way you
accept her as is, how happy you
make her by the way you encourage
her growth and self acceptance
cause they all come with insecurities, negative nuances, shames, scars,
pains from a past you probably will
never hear of until you earn that
sacred trust and lightning strikes
that should fill you with pride when
you study them.
Why?
Because of all men that could
have her, she saw her man, her
future, her truth, her life and
her possibility and potential
unfold beautifully with you and
you alone. And she chose YOU.
(And trust me, there are ten/
twenty to thirty + men that can
do a way better job than you out
there who’ve either hollered and
got turned down or those who’ve
made plans to and probably will).
FAM, SHE CHOSE YOU. YOU GOT HER.
WORK TO KEEP THAT WEALTH.
