BY Ramatsobane Selogadi Maloma
We tend to find that men are literally afraid of being out shined by their female counterparts. It was never a problem back in the days when our forefathers put ours mother’s in a tiny trap called marriage, that trap made most women think that what the men say is right at all times. I believe our minds are still held hostage by the old sayings women shouldn’t be educated, they belong in the kitchen nonsense.
I might sound judgemental but it’s how I feel and how men still take us for. Things have changed for the good now, since women have taken a stand and have embraced the inner hustle voice within, we now have ambitions of our own and dreams of our own that we constantly striving to achieve, nothing can stand in our way.
We were once locked in a world were men dominated in everything, they said one thing we stayed on our ground, until we noticed what they really fear. They fear that when we own what belongs to us, and that we might outshine their work. Basically men are afraid of women being successful and that we might over power them in many things. Positive changes in equality over the years has given us the platform to become our own persons, own our own businesses, play sports that only men were allowed to play.
So men give your wives the chance to embrace their dreams and stand by them and not against them. Don’t destroy their hard achievements for your own gain. If success is what you want having her at your side is the best option at this moment. Successful kings have queens by their side. Stop treating your queens any lesser. We were all born to soar.
BY Ramatsobane Selogadi Maloma
