“It’s time for some mind sex, we ain’t got to take our clothes off yet – we can burn the incense, and just chat – relax, I got the good vibrations – before we make love let’s have a good conversation” Dead Prez
The hype over big butts and big boobs might in the future reach some form of extinction, things change over time. What was once hip and happening can tomorrow be the new bore. Of late the internet has spark up a a semi-new bandwagon that some of us have been riding along with even before it was given life in the form of this buzz name being “sapiosexuality”.
Sapiosexuals are those that find intelligence or genius to be thee most attractive part of an individual #hashtag ‘I like you for your brains gurl’
Out with the old and In with the new, big butts might be played out, sapiosexuality is a real thing, separates the telepathics from the kool kids. below are signs that you too might just be a sapiosexual based on your dating preferences and habits.
Book Stores Over Clubs
Read up some quote some time back that said something like this:- ‘Leaders and Readers’, sapiosexuals are all about content, to them what you put in is what you get out, the verbal spells that they puke out while engaging in rhetoric has been crafted in the well know Buddhist temple called the Bookstore. Their curiosity levels are somewhat weird to the world. if they somehow get to find out that you read, then to them you the perfect fit, might as well be love at first read, i mean sight.
Mind Sex Over LIT Convos
Conversations on dates, especially first dates, can be the highest form of tedium known to modern man. First dates are more like job interviews most times. The sapiosexual in us need not only good conversation but truly witty banter. Banter meaning you are trading comments like boxers trade jabs. Banter isn’t just talking, it’s thinking on your feet in vocal form. The key here is not just that you can communicate, but that you can do it creatively. If sarcasm is the language in which you choose to communicate in, chances are, that you are a sapiosexual. like I said, sapiosexuals wield their rhetoric like master swordsmen wild their swords.
Silence Over Small Talk
Sometimes, the best conversations are the ones where nothing is said at all. This is the case when you’re actually in a relationship with someone and there isn’t a need to fill every single moment of silence with conversation. Sometimes you just want to be in your own head for a minute. To think, or daydream, or just relax and enjoy the moment. If the idea of being able to snuggle on a couch and read together is your idea of a good time, chances are, that you are a sapiosexual.
Substance Over Popularity
The last thing most people who qualify as sapiosexuals are interested in is whatever is trendy. Sure, you might find a sapiosexual at a night club, but I can almost guarantee they don’t want to be there. Sapiosexuals don’t always run with the “pack” like others do. Again, it boils down to how you spend your time that matters the most. Sapiosexuals tend to care about what the people they date are into, because it is a sign of who they are as a person. If you’ve ever ranked a date based solely on the choice of location, chances are, that you are a sapiosexual.
Taste Over Trends
Again, sapiosexuals tend to value substance over what is popular. This means they prefer things like a live music venue made for 100 people listening to a new J Cole or Kendrick Lamar album religiously. Individual taste is important. You have to make sure that the person you are dating, at the very least, has similar tastes if only to ensure that you can go on a road trip together with having to endure terrible music. More importantly, taste in music and movies is all about who you are as an individual. If you’ve ever quit talking to a potential mate based on their music collection, chances are, that you are a sapiosexual.
Like Rihanna said, “Must be Love On The Brain”
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Article By: The Mic Droppa
