Sorry, I loved the Idea of You, Just Not You!

A Love Confession — A story old as time! No one has ever actually confessed to this, well not that I do know of anyone having done it, but I hope someone actually did. Isn’t Read More …

Could You Sacrifice Your Relashionship To Let Your Partner Be Happy With Someone Else???

“Forever, forever, ever, forever, ever? Forever never seems that long until you’re grown”- Outkast revolutionary love So, my husband and I were discussing the ability to walk away if our relationship wasn’t working, if we Read More …

My Son Was In A ‘Racial Fight’ After He Affirmed That Black Is Beautiful

“In a place that will never understand you are amazing, in a place that will put fire to you then say you are callous, they will burn you then say you are reckless, some mothers Read More …

Lost Manuscripts From A Conversation I Had with A Girl that Wasn’t There… By Kagiso Maloma

Conversation With A Girl that Wasn’t There… The real question I really wanted to ask her was: Why the hell are you not here Telepathic in her senses she replied: you not yet ready to receive Read More …

When Bae Dies Do I Have To Contribute At The Funeral??

“The whole world can become the enemy when you lose what you love”—Kristina McMorris By Nthabiseng Lucia Tselapedi Been adulting today, calling my funeral cover company *yes! I have one, I don’t have a pile Read More …

Feels Like I’m Doomed Dealing With Women Who’s Past Relationships With Their Exs Won’t Allow Us To Bloom…

Not a gloomy tale of ghosts dressed in white and catchy songs like ‘who you gonna call’ Weird enough I seem to level with monsters as they seem to know what they want But a Read More …

10 THINGS I WANT SAY TO A BLACK WOMAN by Joshua Bennett (Tribute To All Woman)

1. I wish I could put your voice in jar, wait for those lonely winter nights when I forget what God sounds like, run to the nearest maximum security prison and open it. Watch the notes that bounce Read More …

La’ Hoe phase! La’Hoe life!

“Misery won’t touch you gentle. It always leaves its thumbprints on you; sometimes it leaves them for others to see, sometimes for nobody but you to know of.” -Edwidge Danticat So, a friend of mine Read More …

Who Killed Chivalry? By Moshibudi Thatego Madia

‘How To Be A Modern Knight’ We live in a world were interactions with the opposite sex are massive, and are no longer reserved for certain occasions. Way back in the day, men and women Read More …

#MCM ‘Man Crush Monday’ Epidemic… By Molepane Nkopodi

Man Crush Monday I have never taken part in #MCM. Why? Well…I tend to shy away from social media trends because sometimes I really feel like I am not cool enough or I really just Read More …

Blessed is the man a REAL WOMAN finds to love…

By virtue of our nature, women are nurturers, a trait that through the generations has been confused for weakness while it actually is one of our greatest traits ever.

Family Is All That We Got #familyvalues

Do you remember that friend of mine I left on the other side, Fear (Pain)? What I didn’t mention is he had introduced me to another friend, but I never really got to know her Read More …

Dear Future Wife: I’m Not A Douche Anymore…

Just a mini brief history on this article, it was written January 2015 and I’ve since held on to it as I thought that I really was still a bit of a douche and releasing Read More …

I Finally Managed To Kick Out My Lazy Toxic Roomate…

Been a couple of months since this dude has been staying with me, cant even remember how I came to let him in. He’s everywhere I go, he pays no rent, eats what I eat, Read More …

Why Women Are Game Changers… By Mzomuhle Msomi

Missandei: “Valar morghulis.” Khaleesi: “Yes. All men must die, but we are not men.” Ever considered that women could change the game. Back in varsity there was a period at res where men went through Read More …

The Problem With Us Females In Our Twenties… By Nthabiseng Lucia Tselapedi

“My alone feels so good, I’ll only have you if you’re sweeter than my solitude.”― Warsan Shire So, I have been thinking a lot lately, about how we women seem to take longer than men Read More …

“Chomi You Overweight Please Do Something About It” PS: A friend Who Actually Cares… By Nthabiseng Lucia Tselapedi

“Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to Read More …

I’m A Dead Beat Side Guy… I’ve fallen for Her :(

  I’m a dead beat side guy I hate not being able to write poems about her Gabrielle Union type of character she smells like a clean jump shot Hate not being able to woman crush Read More …

Vodka, Ice Cream & T’issues’… "What Every Women Needs To Know" By Pamela Kunene

 “If you’re in a relationship and all you do is cry every day, you’ll need to stop and ask yourself, ‘Am I dating a human or an onion” – Unknown I am not sure who Read More …

50 Shades Of Trying To Fit In #BaeEpidemic

‘It’s really overwhelming for one to live up to the standards set by a totally fictional flawless movie character’ Almost if not all of us are hypnotics. The proper authority saw to it that the proper Read More …